Being an Acquired Taste: Dry Humor, Literal Thinking, and Embracing Your Quirks

Jennifer Jones
Jul 26
3 min read

Vintage Microphone Sketch evoking nostalgia for the golden age of broadcasting and live performances. Much like the legendary Bob Newhart, whose deadpan humor and storytelling style brought a unique charm to the airwaves, this microphone symbolizes the intimate connection between performers and their audiences. Newhart's ability to weave intricate tales with just a few words resonates with the simplicity and elegance of this vintage design, reminding us of the timeless appeal of classic comedy and communication.

Have you ever felt just a little out of sync with the crowd? Maybe your dry humor or literal nature makes you stand out in ways others don’t immediately get.

I’ve been there—Not quite an outsider, just a half beat off.

“You’re an Acquired Taste.”

One day, while watching TV, someone said, “That’s an acquired taste.”

Without missing a beat, Matt looked at me and said, “You’re an acquired taste.”

There’s no telling what inspired him to say it, but I laughed out loud.

Later, I gave it a little more thought and realized how true that feels.

Understanding Dry Humor and Deadpan Delivery

My humor is very dry, and when people first meet me, they’re not always sure how to take me.

In fact, I know some of my friends have given others a little heads-up:

“She’s very dry. Can be pretty deadpan. If you hear a flat delivery, that’s her humor voice.”

Matt calls me Bob Newhart—a reference people who know him immediately get. They chuckle slightly and agree. (If you don’t know who Bob Newhart is, you can meet him here: Bob Newhart on YouTube)

Literalness in Relationships: A Quirky Challenge

Being extremely literal can create both funny and frustrating moments in relationships.

It used to drive Matt a little crazy—and probably still does.

I’ve learned not to start a timer when he says, “I’ll be there in five.” It may be six. (Yes, I used to time him when he’d say something like, “I’ll be there at 2:54.”)

Now I accept that it might be 2:58. Progress!

Laughing Late (But Eventually Getting There)

Truthfully, I struggle with other people’s humor sometimes, too. I assume that’s partly because of how literal I am.

I usually catch up - but sometimes with a slight delay.

You know that character who laughs thirty seconds after everyone else? Sometimes, that’s me.

And when it is, Matt leans over and whispers, “It’s a joke.”

Embracing Personality Quirks: Why We’re All Acquired Tastes

The truth is most people are an acquired taste.

We all have quirks and styles that make us human. Everyone marches to the beat of their own drum—and sometimes, their own tempo entirely.

I’m learning to appreciate that. Not only in myself, but in others as well.

Honestly? I’m okay being an acquired taste. It’s part of what makes me me.

P.S. When this topic comes up—and it has and it will—Matt always says: “Yeah, but I acquired the taste quickly.”

After all, we’re married now.

What About You?

Ever felt like an acquired taste yourself? I’d love to hear about it—your quirks, your humor, or how you’ve come to embrace your own half-beat-off rhythms.

💬 Drop a comment below. Let’s celebrate being delightfully different.

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